My sister not works now that my mother is becoming greater and need help, my hermana is not working. I feel very hurt because my turn to charge with everything: when you have to take it to the doctor, when it pone sick, whether to accompany her to make purchases, etc. what could do to get my sister collaborate? Yolanda Malaga (Spain) Dear Yolanda: rather than anything, would like to suggest that you explorases an issue with all the possible objetividad: are you absolutely sure that your sister is not attending your mother? Think about it, because it is possible that she meets other needs: not accompanying your mother, or spending nights in sailing to meet perhaps, is commissioned to be near her when things are going well (a form of accompany it which can you do not do or desprecies). If, despite everything, you still pareciendo that your sister not given anything, we suggest that you start to ask yourself another way situacion. Why not give your mother the attention to you, individually, can and want to give you, disfrutando from this contact and being at peace with your principles? Thinks that help your madre represents an oportunidad to narrow your relacion your mother is alive and close by, this alone is already a regalo, to transform it into a thankless effort? Take advantage of it, and if someone in your family does not do so, is his full right, in all case tries to let you know that an opportunity that can not be repeated is perdiendo. The y team if you have any query on the subject click here original author and source of the article. David Long spoke with conviction.